I have good news to share - only because I know you were all so worried about me (wink, wink). Gander Outdoors re-stocked their supply of bear spray, and I was able to purchase a can a couple of days ago. Just in time, as far as I'm concerned, since we had yet another bear sighting in the neighborhood. They're only black bears but, still, I figure it's best not to take any chances, especially since there are a couple of cubs out and about. So, I'm all set. Thank you for your concern.
Over the course of the past six months or so, I’ve recounted our
family’s travels during the first of three cross country National Parks camping
trips with our kids and travel trailer in tow.
Our second trip (in the summer of 2010) was to the “Grand Circle” in the
southwest and future posts will cover the tale of this epic journey. Suffice it to say for now that this trip
included 9 National Parks - 2 in Colorado, 1 in Arizona and 6 in Utah - and at least 2 State Parks. In preparation for those upcoming posts, I
pulled out our itinerary and have been scrolling through our photos, opening
the floodgates to a whole host of memories.
Long Pond - Acadia National Park |
It’s not so much that I’ve been reminiscing about that particular
cross country trip. No, I’ve actually
been thinking more about our travels in general – both with and without our
travel trailer – from the perspective of the kinds of adventures they have
allowed our son and daughter to experience, and how the two of them were
impacted by those adventures. Every one
of our family vacations seems to have flown by in the blink of an eye, whether it
was one week long or five weeks long, and it’s in looking at our kids’ overall
travel history that I realize they have been blessed in both the quantity and
quality of their experiences.
Cruising with a Park Ranger in Glacier Bay National Park - Junior Ranger #1 and . . . |
Junior Ranger #2 (The kids will kill me when they see these photos.) |
Certainly, everyone’s idea of a great vacation or travel
experience will differ due to personal preferences in the style of travel, type
of accommodations and selection of activities involved. But vacationing, whether done locally or in
the far flung reaches of civilization, often provides us with experiences not
easily obtained in our normal everyday life (unless, that is, your normal
everyday life is that of a full-time RVer!). When we open our eyes, our minds and our hearts
during our adventures, those adventures have the potential to teach us, entertain
us and even change us.
Ryan, Anya & Whiskey paddling on Great Lake Sacandaga (Is that a shark fin I see?!) |
Our son, Ryan, now 24, has woken up in a camper crib under the
shade of an umbrella on an ocean beach, in a tent along the wooded coast of
Maine, on a powerboat in a marina and, of course, inside our travel trailer
nestled amid the gorgeous scenery of the mountains or desert. Ryan was an easy going kid who always woke up
with a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye and he grew up into an easy
going adult with a quick wit and that same twinkle. He and his girlfriend, Anya, have been
together for a little more than five years now.
Because Ryan was interested in many things mechanical when he was a
child, Alan began teaching him at an early age about tractors and trailers and,
eventually, about boats and RVs. Due to
his inclinations and our family pastimes, Ryan has followed our footsteps into
the water (he has a jet ski and both he and Anya have kayaks) and into the
woods (they have a tent, as well, and often go hiking with their dog, Whiskey). Ryan is, by nature, a quiet guy, with the
soul of an old and experienced explorer.
In my mind’s eye, I see him when he was 12, smiling on the fly bridge of
his uncle’s boat in the Gulf of Mexico; at a truck stop in the mid-west when he
was 13, manning the gas pump; and on Long Pond in Acadia when he was 17, just drifting
in a kayak, quietly enjoying the afternoon.
Kyra enjoying the view at North Cascades National Park |
Our daughter, Kyra, now 19, has climbed to the top of an old fire
tower to see an osprey nest, taken up paddle boarding on a lake in Minnesota,
hiked to the top of the dunes on the shore of Lake Michigan and gone horseback
riding along the Pacific Ocean. This kid
takes to exploration like a fish to water.
Unlike her brother, who will let an adventure unfold and just roll with
it, Kyra isn’t satisfied with an adventure until she has turned it upside down
and shaken every last bit of excitement out of its pockets. This is the child who wants to see the world
(heaven help it) and she wants to see it all right away. Fortunately, she’s a licensed Cosmetologist
and will be able to support herself financially. For now, Kyra is still in the education phase
of her young life. But, it won’t be long
before she sets her sights on the city in which she plans to live – and my guess
is that it will be someplace big, vibrant and in a much warmer locale than the
northeast. Then her eyes will turn to
the Bucket List she’s already compiling and we’ll be getting texts and photos
from some of the most magnificent places on earth. She loves our National Parks and quiet days
on the lake, but she loves the energy of large cities, too, and I have a
feeling that she is the kind of person who can (and will) be happy in many
different places. In my mind’s eye, I
see Kyra when she was 6, playing on the boy’s Little League team because the
only thing the girls were worried about was the color of their gloves; when she
was 11, accepting the challenge to hike the slickrock in Canyonlands to the top
of Whale Rock, and when she was 18, walking the west coast beaches at sunset
with wind-blown hair and a pensive but peaceful expression.
I don’t know what the future will hold for these two kids, nor do
they. But I believe that the thousands
upon thousands of miles they have traveled, the amazing places they have seen
and the adventures they have enjoyed have helped to shape them into the young
adults they have become – kind, caring and intelligent people who love the
outdoors, understand the importance of family bonds and ties to friends, and
are willing to work hard to achieve their life’s goals. And the best part? Alan and I have been with them, every step of
the way, taking the greatest of pleasure in their journeys across the country
and through the years.
Thank
you for taking the time to visit Reflections Around the
Campfire. I realize there are SO many
other things you could be doing and I truly appreciate the fact that you made this
blog part of your day. Enjoy your summer
adventures – big and small. May each one
of them delight you and teach you – about your friends, your family, the world
in which you live or, best of all, about yourself!
Judging by our own experience with our daughter and now our grandchildren, I'm convinced that perhaps nothing could make a more positive impact on children than the rich experiences you have described. If every child could have such an upbringing, the world would be a different place. Hats off to you and Ryan!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your note, Mike! In addition to all of the good stuff - and there certainly has been plenty of that - I believe our travels have also helped to teach the kids how to weather adversity. I'm thinking back to one 8 hour Emergency Room visit about ten years ago and two completely unrelated breakdowns just last summer. Our attitude and the kindness of strangers helped us weather those storms. Life - it's always an adventure of one type or another! Enjoy your time in Colorado!
DeleteAnother delightful post, Mary! You and Alan have raised two remarkable kids! Blessed indeed!
ReplyDeleteAwww, thanks, Peg! Any day is a great day to count your blessings and we have been very fortunate.
DeleteLoved meeting your kids! You have given them a gift that they will enjoy for a lifetime.
ReplyDeleteLadona, I have a feeling that you would enjoy the kids' senses of humor. They both laugh easily and are quick with a comeback. Years ago, we were riding in the car and Ryan jokingly asked, "Are we there yet?" Kyra didn't miss a beat and quickly replied, "Yeah. Jump out." Don't worry - he has gotten her back a hundred times over. I'm thinking that you would fit right in with this crowd!
DeleteLovely post, Mary, thank you so much for sharing! We have similar memories with regard to our daughters' growing up years, and I can only hope they planted seeds similar to what it appears have been planted in your son and daughter.
ReplyDeleteThis fall we will be introducing our almost-four year old granddaughter to her first national park via, and we are pretty sure she will love it based on what we've experienced with her thus far. I am absolutely itching to buy her a little Jr. Ranger vest upon completion of her first Jr. Ranger program sheet. It should be wonderful fun for all. :-)
Welcome home, Tamara, and thanks for stopping by! It gives me so much pleasure to see our kids enjoying outdoor activities - I imagine adventuring with grandchildren would result in that same deliriously happy feeling. Definitely go for that Jr. Ranger vest - and don't forget a Junior Ranger Passport to go with it! Congrats on the new grandbaby too - she's as adorable as her big sister!
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